Our Story

Adventure, Resilience, Friendship: Uniting Men on a Path of Meaning

My personal story of self-help, finding my purpose, improving my life, and becoming the best version of me possible. 

I used to be someone who was constantly struggling with feeling lost and inadequate in the world. I thought I didn't belong anywhere and that I was different from everyone else. I couldn't understand why I thought this way and it seemed I was moving differently from everyone else (mostly in the wrong direction).

I had no wife, girlfriend, kids, hell...even a pet. I had all these negative thoughts about myself and where I was in life. I thought I didn't have anyone to talk to or go to for advice. Besides, I didn't want to look weak. Then, I lost all of the money I had saved over the past few years working hard at my job. I cut expenses in order to save more, but it wouldn't catch me up fast enough. I would put what I could into various investments, courses, and training my mind. The courses and training may have worked, but I had lost all my money. While my friends and family were buying houses and doing well for themselves, I had to move back in with my parents at the age of 25. The next few years I hustled and saved as much as possible. I bought more courses, books, and dove into learning all that I could. It was lonely at times.  

The Turning Point

One day, I decided enough was enough. I knew I needed to make a change in my life and I needed to start working towards the dream life that I wanted. So I kept educating myself and reading self-help books and articles, but I started to understand the reasons behind my shortcomings and feeling lost. I discovered that I was an introvert and my strengths lie in introspection and self-reflection. By understanding this, I began to appreciate and accept my personality and found ways to express myself in a more positive and fulfilling way. That is how the idea for this website came to fruition. 

I also started to set goals for myself and began taking ACTION towards achieving them. I started to work on my personal development, building my confidence and self-esteem. I also started to surround myself with people who uplift and inspire me, and who share similar values and interests. I spoke with those people who were more than willing to listen to what I had been keeping inside for years.

What I Found

It's been a journey, but now I can say that I've come a long way. I no longer feel behind, without a purpose, or lost. I understand who I am and why I am different, and I'm working towards creating the life that I want. I'm grateful for the lessons I've learned and the growth I've experienced. I'm excited for what the future holds and I'm confident that I can achieve anything I set my mind to. 

The Goal

I hope to spread this message and positivity to anyone who needs it. I created this site for men to come and talk about their lives and seek out advice from other men to become better through supporting each other. I want to see our society of lost men become great like we once were, and can all still be!

Our Dreams and Purpose

We will be developing courses and informational products over time. We are working on a chatroom for men to have a space to seek help from other men who have been through similar things in their lives. I have been considering opening up a few hours a day to video conferencing for advice, suggestions, or even just a listening ear. Send us an email at info@deadscholarsociety.com if you are interested in something like that. For now, please enjoy our clothing products and help spread the word about our community of self-improvement!